Why I’m Still a Virgin

With honesty and warmth, Howie answers these two questions and unpacks just what sex is. Sex is more than just 2 people coming together in a physical act of intimacy. Sex, as God designed it, is the most powerful glue on the planet.

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Description

"What the hell is wrong with you? Why are you still a virgin?!"

With honesty and warmth, Howie answers these two questions and unpacks what the big deal about sex is. Sex is more than just 2 people coming together in a physical act of intimacy. Sex, as God designed it, is the most powerful glue on the planet. It physically, emotionally and spiritually bonds a man and a woman together in marriage.

The problem comes when those 2 people bond with different people and outside marriage. The result is broken hearts, insecurities, STDs, dashed expectations, abortion, divorce and betrayal, instead of the ultimate amazing experience Hollywood promised.

The good news is that we weren't designed for that story, and there's another story - a better story from God. Jesus isn't surprised by our mistakes and failures. He pours out his grace and promises his Spirit to live in a new way and start a new relationship with him.

Possible Discussion Questions

  • Are you surprised by God's design for sex, and response to the misuse of sex? Why/why not?
  • Do you think Jesus really can provide a better way to live? Why/why not?

Related Bible Reference

  • 1 Thessalonians 5:3-4

Credits

Performed by Howard Fyvie

Howard Fyvie is a Christian film maker and musician based in South Africa.

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